I have been w/ my bf over 2 years. I love him and we live together. But I met someone else. We have known eachother for 2wks. I swear I fell in love with him on day 1. Idk what to do. Im so confused right now. My heart feels like its split in pieces?
The right and the ideal. The right thing to do would be to talk to your bf and tell him what’s going on, the feelings that you have, and ask for his understanding. He will be hurt nonetheless, but this is something he should know now. He has to know what’s going on so that he can do something on his side so you won’t have any desires for someone else. Next right thing for you to do would be to stop talking to this new guy, the feelings you’re having with someone other than your bf would be consider cheating. How would you feel if your boyfriend was preoccupied thinking about another girl, going out with her, spending time with her? You have to be responsible. Either this, or end things with your boyfriend, then pursue your plans with this other guy. However,most people aren’t that responsible or respectful in today’s world. It’s just life. So the more realistic thing to do would be to talk this new guy and figure out if he’s interested in you at all. If he is, then pursue him and break up with your boyfriend. If not, then continue on your present relationship. But then, I wouldn’t recommend this, and I hate to write this even as an advice.. However, it’s what people do in the real world.